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Meet The Bartender: George McLean from JB & Sons

Originally published for Urban List
In this weeks episode of Riding in Bars with Boys we meet George McLean, long-time wrangler of booze and loving wrestler of women. George owns JB & Sons with work husband, Paul Fraser and their veteran relationship bemoans many a night out and follow up Bloody Mary’s.

JB & Sons is a comely little bar located in the quiet seaside town of Freshwater on the Northern Beaches, where all the blonde, tanned people enjoy their slightly higher standards of living and Liberal politics. It’s a delicious dimly lit haunt where you can slip away from the salty arms of sobriety and into the warm embrace of finely chosen wine and beer.

If you happen to visit at the right time, which is anytime at all, you can spot JB, John “JB” “Papi” Burgess, himself most likely pouring his own beer behind the bar. Chat to him about his relations with the establishment and you won’t be disappointed.

Ivy, Hemingways, Earl’s Juke Joint, your dreams, all places you may have met George before, who from here on out would like to be referred to as the Full-time Party Connoisseur (story checks out because he doesn’t even take the quiet time for a chaser after his tequila shots. Animal).

Many people have great things to say about George, some of which are written on the cubicles in the girls toilets, but here’s some extra reasons you should go to JB&Sons and have a beer with the Full-time Party Connoisseur in person.

He’s Scottish

I feel the Scottish make life experiences extra better, it’s like when you get free samples at Coles or extra vodka in your VoSo*. The Scots are just better than you or I, and they’re responsible for whisky, impeccable gins like The Botanist or Hendricks, and also Jimeoin. Their accents take you on a sexy little get away and make you forget you ever had a 9-5 job and $2,000 worth of SDRO debts. Amirite? George is from Glasgow more specifically, and almost as funny as his national icon.

He loves summer and so do we

A bronzed glow makes everything sexier and George, with his long, lustrous Tresemme locks thinks so too. “I’m a northern beaches guy. The place is incredible in summer. Everything is juicy and delicious and sun-kissed and happy and blooming. Everyone is stoked. The drinks taste better too. Cold beers, margaritas and daiquiris, rosé, gin & tonics. I’m really looking forward to this summer more than most as we will hopefully have two venues up and running. I can’t wait.”

He knows his stuff and is real nice about it

George has been around the industry, but also the world. He knows what’s up and the service, food and drinks, staff and even clientele reflect that strongly. He’s also so damn nice and unpretentious, which makes liking him easy, and don’t we all love a lovable bartender. Just watch him throw rogue compliments to other guys in the game below. Sickening.

“I admire people who are passionate about what they do. From a strictly hospitality point of view I’d say I really admire the gentlemen at Swillhouse, Jason & Anton. I’ve always loved what they do.”

On top of compliments, he loves to booze

George is a man after my own slightly hardened heart and takes me on a tropical trip to Hawaii with the Honolulu Lemon cocktail, which is fresher than Outkast themselves. Beyond making them, George won’t say no to a drink with mates.

“The first year at Shady Pines was some of the best boozing I’ve ever partaken in and Baxter is just fucking ridiculous, I love it. The execution of their venues and attention to detail is one thing but the culture they have built throughout their group is admirable, and enviable at the same time. Not only are their venues full of people enjoying themselves, their venues are run by amazing professionals. Their places are made tick by the legends who work in them. It’s one of those things that reflects really well on operators.”

They make a burger that tastes like a Big Mac

We all know the way to a customer’s heart is through their cheap, money for value, stomachs and JB & Sons have really nailed it on the frugal side of things. If I can have a $14 Big Mac without having to go to McDonald’s then you’ve sold me. But wait, there’s more because their burger tastes like a Big Mac only saucier and with bacon (drops mic). Head nod also goes to the First Drop ‘Half & Half’ Shiraz to which I more than half drank.


To find out more about George’s bartending skills, head to JB & Sons in Freshwater, or drop a comment in the cubicles.


  • The Papi – Patty | Double Cheese | Smoked Bacon | Pickle | Iceberg | Tomato | Onion | Mustard | Aioli | Tomato Sauce
  • Pulled Pork Taco – 24hr Hickory Smoked Pork | Pickled Slaw | Guacamole | Mayo
  • Honolulu Lemon – Pampero | Fresh Orange | Fresh Pineapple

* Vodka Lime & Soda

Looking to meet more bartenders? Say hello to Luke from This Must Be The Place

Image credit: Daryl Kong

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It’s actually really hard to “just be yourself”

One of the most ceaseless pieces of advice to ever exist is to “just be yourself”. Your mother will tell this to you on your first day of school. Your father on your first date. The sales assistant when purchasing a padded bra, and finally, your current insta fitness idol with always follow her monday motivation quote up with a mandatory #beyourself.

But there’s a small problem with that advice, isn’t there. How exactly do you do that? How do you simply “just be yourself” particularly when you’ve been trying to be Cher from Clueless since 2002, sans plaid.

For those of us that never learnt just how to be yourself in our younger years, because media and shiny things to look up to, being yourself actually means years of work undoing trying to be someone else. Probably why most of us either drop out of college or change majors three times in a semester.

To be honest, there are so many other people I’d rather be than myself. I’ve spent years trying to be more impressionable and less anti-authoritarian.

Why? Because being yourself is f&cking hard. It’s the whole reason we have role models, so we don’t have to do all the leg work. It’s like an IKEA set that’s already been put together, only just for your personality, and the only warning label is ‘don’t choose Britney Spears or Lindsey Lohan’.

I always thought the journey of life was about trying to figure yourself out, find out who you ‘really’ are and other enlightening things probably said by the Dalai Lama or Ellen Degeneres. It was about making mistakes, doing dumb dumb things, kissing the wrong boys and telling everyone about it. Then hopefully you’d come out the other end with this beautiful sense of self-awareness. But, now we’re meant to start being ourselves from the get go? We’re expected to be this wonderful, original human right from the start.

Considering we’re all a product of our own environment, I don’t really understand what the whole be yourself thing means or how you get there. I get the basics; be true to yourself, listen to your heart, be honest, don’t shoplift cigarettes etc etc. But, that’s not very applicable information, is it? Instead, it puts a rather large amount of pressure on us.

So, since this advice ceases to roll over and die, I think it’s time we take a look into what ‘being yourself’ could potentially mean, for all of us.

Duh, stop being other people

Pretty simple. Everyone wants to be someone; someone special, someone beautiful, someone intelligent, but sometimes that can be confused with wanting to be someone else. For instance, I once wanted to be Crysta the fairy from Fern Gully and my friend Elyse wanted to be former playboy bunny Kendra Wilkinson. Today, I’m glad my aspirations were slightly more unachievable than hers. But the thing is, it’s not so bad to aspire to be like someone if you admire them for all their qualities and values. These are the people that set the will to succeed in us. ‘Being yourself’ does not necessarily mean being 100% different to everyone else, it can mean taking little pieces from others that fit with the type of person you might one day want to be. Don’t be an actor playing a role that someone else created, write your own character and pull inspiration from others if you need to.

Stop caring what other people think and share that mentality

Most of us (girls) tone ‘ourselves’ down a li’l bit for public consumption. Tell us to be ‘ourselves’, you’re more than likely going to get 60% crazy, 30% emotion and 10% GIRLS season 4. It’s incredibly difficult to stop caring what people think of you, our day to days are plagued with constructing perfect stories of our lives through social media. But while it’s hard to let go of the ego, I imagine this is one of the greatest steps in the direction towards ‘just being yourself’. It requires you to be honest and even speak up when you don’t want to, to listen to your gut instincts, to not be afraid of sometimes being an outcast, and to most importantly recognise when someone is also being authentic with you. The more you liken yourself with people also trying to be ‘themselves’ the more compelled you will be to pursue that same goal.

It doesn’t have to happen over night

Lot’s of things can happen over night, like baking a cake or making a baby, but becoming ‘yourself’ is not one of them. As humans we are in constant evolve. Everything you experience continues to add to the person you are and will become, so the whole ‘being yourself’ thing is a never ending project and you should become accustomed to working on it on a frequent turn around.

Just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should

At the risk of sounding like a Full House episode, someone once told me “Don’t choose opportunity, choose opportunity that faces in the direction of your dreams”, which reminded me that the in order to have dreams we must do things ‘ourselves’ in order to achieve them, which requires us to not always do things others are doing. Once again, this is part of growing up and being challenged by these types of situations highlights our independent strengths and weaknesses that inevitably make us who we are.

While these tips build a relative foundation for ‘just being yourself’ there’s still no distinct guide on exactly how to do it. Possibly the best advice is that no else in the world is you, but you. So perhaps we should stop confusing people by saying ‘be yourself’ all the time and replace it with something a little more inspiring like ‘be the self you’ve always dreamed of being’.

Then maybe we might just find ourselves.